Follow my blog with Bloglovin Brian took this picture when passing a bus stop the other day. I love LA. Alright, I think this man and his torso need a caption. Who wants to caption this? … [Read more...]
Clean Water For the First Time
May 8, 2013 | 4 Comments
I wanted to share this letter written by Sister Donna to Waves for Water. This trip taken by Jack Rose of Waves for Water would not have been possible without your donations. Read this and know you made it happen. December 17,2012 Dear Waves for Water, What a blessed thing happened when Jack Rose came in a world-wind trip to Ethiopia and Heartland. No idle tourist is he, not a beat or step in any direction except one, the bringing of, teaching about, workshop for, and installation of … [Read more...]
We’re Done Having Kids
May 7, 2013 | 5 Comments
When Brian had his vasectomy, we had so many people feel obligated to chime in about how much we would regret it. Some of their reasoning was a bit too morbid to even be amusing: You’re so young! I’m old enough to know I’d like to reach my golden years. What if something happens to your family/child? I am not even going to entertain that possibility. You can’t replace human beings/family members/children. It doesn't work like that. What if you … [Read more...]
The Attack of the Right-Winged Body Snatchers
May 7, 2013 | Leave a Comment
Internal monologue after seeing this still image: A picture is worth a thousand words. Did anyone actually see this segment? Is it possible these men defended women and questioned the point of such an irrelevant study? Has someone taken over my body? Am I seriously defending Fox News right now? Good Lord...that benefit of the doubt and being less critical craziness is getting to my head. This makes life so much more complicated. I am going to turn on my Roomba and make myself a sandwich. … [Read more...]
Comfy Joey Ring Sling Giveaway
May 6, 2013 | 11 Comments
While we used wrap/ring slings/carriers about 12 hours a day when my son was an infant, they are still a vital part of our life - although he's three years old. My little guy is very social - he loves to be around people and spends his whole day talking. But, he is still sensitive to lots of noise and stimulation. Occasionally, when we've had a busy morning, he gets overstimulated around lunch time and gets so agitated that he can't relax enough to eat so he can take his nap. On these days, a … [Read more...]
What I Wish I Had Known Before Our International Adoption
May 6, 2013 | 3 Comments
If I could have written a letter to myself before we started the international adoption process, here are some things I wish I would have known. Some I already knew, but after adopting (or going through the process) others became much clearer to me. Adoption and parenting in general are selfless. Keep in mind that you are not just adopting a family member, but there is a mutual merger of birth and adopted families, culture, and country. Research thoroughly. Melissa Fay Greene recommends The … [Read more...]
Enough About Kim Kardashian’s Pregnancy Appearance
May 5, 2013 | 3 Comments
I am working really hard to be neutral and to understand where even the most trite and insolent comments from others come from. Then I read an article like this from the Huffington Post and it makes me sad for pregnant women in our society...and a little angry. I understand (to some extent) the point of this article; the author is a fashion editor. Writing an article about maternity fashion tips seems logical. Kim Kardashian is a hot topic. A pregnant Kim Kardashian is even … [Read more...]
How to Be a Better Judgmental Person
May 2, 2013 | 2 Comments
Here are five steps to take to determine whether you are negatively judging someone without warrant. 1. Identify who or what is being threatened. Negative judgment is generally fear-based. Understanding what is causing the fear/threat is the first step in understanding and working through healthy judgment. For instance, strangers who followed the Casey Anthony trial may have judged her because they felt she was acquitted of murder even though she actually committed the crime. This … [Read more...]
The Crazy Cat Lady is Back: We’re Getting a Cat!
May 2, 2013 | 10 Comments
We just told the boys we could get a cat, which means we’re definitely moving because our building doesn’t allow pets. ( Our shrimp seem to be the exception. ) I have to say, it has been nice living the past four years without an animal. Cat litter boxes drive me insane. Before we get this promised cat we are going to do some thorough research on how to either: 1. Toilet train a cat or 2. Acquire the best litter box system, with daily human intervention, to keep the smell as … [Read more...]
Love Connection
May 1, 2013 | 2 Comments
After our two recent posts about my best friend, Bryan, we received an overwhelming amount of emails inquiring about his romantic status (among other things). So, in order to answer the questions more efficiently, and add to the embarrassing factor for him, here is a post that will do just that. Commonly asked questions: “Is Bryan single?” He is single and ready to mingle. “Is Bryan heterosexual?” Yes. Unfortunately, that limits some of the inquiries, but the heart wants what the … [Read more...]
