This guest was written by Sheena Hill. We encourage mothers to express themselves and make their own educated choices. The views and opinions expressed here may or may not be the opinions of "I Am Not the Babysitter". Section I Section II Section III Why Do I Care So Much About Swaddling? Given all the confusion created by myths and misreading research, the important thing I want you to take away from this piece are to follow best practice every time you swaddle! This means: … [Read more...]
I Am Not the Kidnapper
May 22, 2013 | 13 Comments
Alternet reported that a Virginia father brought his three young children to Walmart and upon returning home had a police officer approach and alerted the father that there were concerns the children were not his (or not legally in his care). Why? The dad had a different skin tone than his daughters. The mixed-race family then had to participate in questioning by the officer. The father insisted the children were indeed his, and then the police officer asked the oldest daughter to point out … [Read more...]
The Real Men of Attachment Parenting: NYC Style
May 22, 2013 | 1 Comment
This was submitted by Annette Bhatia. She captures a real man of attachment parenting- New York style. We love how the suit compliments the carrier. :-) … [Read more...]
The Baby Teething Cure: Baltic Amber Necklace Giveaway (and Review)
May 20, 2013 | 28 Comments
Baltic Amber is a natural analgesic and, when worn on the skin, it releases healing oils that help babies and young children to stay calm and more relaxed throughout teething. While you used to have to wait months to get Amber from Lithuania, Julie at Spark of Amber recently based her company in the United States. As a work-at-home mom of three children, Julie was a power-seller on Ebay before starting Spark of Amber. She has all of her Amber tested to ensure authenticity. Unique Facts … [Read more...]
Confrontation at MMA Class: A “Bad Kid”?
May 16, 2013 | 11 Comments
Yesterday was an interesting day. I called and called around looking for push-up pop molds. Finally, a Sur La Table employee flippantly responded that they indeed carried the product. After a 30 minute drive to the store, paid parking, and two little boys ready for breakfast in tow, we arrived. The man I approached at Sur La Table was extremely apologetic, but explained they did not carry the stupid push-pop molds. (I would like the know if the other employee I spoke to on the phone would … [Read more...]
Breastfeeding Billboard Jokes About Pedophilia
May 15, 2013 | 12 Comments
A billboard featuring a woman breastfeeding her infant (with the breast area blurred out) and the caption (coming from the infant) “Jealous?” is making news because a website geared toward matching younger men with older women is using this as their advertisement. Regardless of the true intentions of a company that put this thought out into the world, it does bring up some obvious issues. Advertising is like a time capsule revealing some of our more shameful ideas of the past. … [Read more...]
Real Men of Attachment Parenting: Immersed in Deaf Culture
May 10, 2013 | 3 Comments
From his wife... This is Chuck...he was a pretty hard core type of guy before Sloane came along. She tempered him and tests his temper, but he does so much to make her life great. He supported me through our unplanned pregnancy, home birth, and nursing her for 3 years. He changed diapers and does everything "good" dads do (Princess balls, baby/toddler wearing, park adventures, and "getting beautified" by her), but he takes one extra step that most dads are never confronted with. He is … [Read more...]
Comfy Joey Ring Sling Giveaway
May 6, 2013 | 11 Comments
While we used wrap/ring slings/carriers about 12 hours a day when my son was an infant, they are still a vital part of our life - although he's three years old. My little guy is very social - he loves to be around people and spends his whole day talking. But, he is still sensitive to lots of noise and stimulation. Occasionally, when we've had a busy morning, he gets overstimulated around lunch time and gets so agitated that he can't relax enough to eat so he can take his nap. On these days, a … [Read more...]
What I Wish I Had Known Before Our International Adoption
May 6, 2013 | 3 Comments
If I could have written a letter to myself before we started the international adoption process, here are some things I wish I would have known. Some I already knew, but after adopting (or going through the process) others became much clearer to me. Adoption and parenting in general are selfless. Keep in mind that you are not just adopting a family member, but there is a mutual merger of birth and adopted families, culture, and country. Research thoroughly. Melissa Fay Greene recommends The … [Read more...]
Enough About Kim Kardashian’s Pregnancy Appearance
May 5, 2013 | 3 Comments
I am working really hard to be neutral and to understand where even the most trite and insolent comments from others come from. Then I read an article like this from the Huffington Post and it makes me sad for pregnant women in our society...and a little angry. I understand (to some extent) the point of this article; the author is a fashion editor. Writing an article about maternity fashion tips seems logical. Kim Kardashian is a hot topic. A pregnant Kim Kardashian is even … [Read more...]
