I have found so many critics of extended breastfeeding are complete ethnocentric boobs (pun intended)…
I just find it frustrating that people really are uneducated on the natural time-frame a human naturally weans. I hope by using my personal experience as a child breastfeeding until the age of six, and my experience breastfeeding my own children, will help people realize that it is quite natural and is not needed to be judged negatively.
The lovely Dr. Katherine Dettwyler is a professor of Anthropology at the University of Delaware, and is affiliated with Texas A&M University (where she taught from 1987-2000). She is has kindly allowed me to post some of her work on extended breastfeeding. She has breastfed two children over the age of four years, they both are proud of it, and they tell people themselves.
Here is the link to her page.










Hi Jamie. Sustained breastfeeding is one of my favorite topics. You might enjoy this post on my blog, which includes a fact sheet that I wrote for breastfeeding mothers to share with their health care providers:
http://threegirlpileup.wordpress.com/2009/05/05/this-is-what-a-nursing-toddler-looks-like/
I’m looking forward to exploring the rest of your blog!
Oh thank you so much Barbara (I read that is your name, but correct me if I’m wrong)
I absolutely love your blog and it looks like we have more than just extended breastfeeding (sustained is such a better word choice!) in common. I can’t wait to get to know you!
Jamie (rosalinda here again from the PF forums)…I absolutely admire you for being able to breastfeed this long. My baby was born at 36 wks, 3days and weighed 4lbs, 10oz at birth. He was in the NICU for 4 days for amniotic fluid in his lungs & jaundice. I did the pumping & feeding while he was there, but they bottle fed him too and on discharge told me to continue doing both. Guess what? At 3 months he started refusing the breast and just wanted the bottle (less work, more milk), so I pumped for another 3 1/2 months and gave him that. Then it became too much for me and I quit. It would have been nice to have had the experience of exclusively breastfeeding him. With my next one I’m not listening to the NICU nurses and doing what you did….24 nurse-in, no bottle
Rosalinda, thank you so much!
I sometimes worry when I post these that people will think I’m hating on people who don’t breastfeed. There are people like you who want to and can’t and I think sometimes these posts can be depressing to read. So I hope that didn’t happen when you read it!
My hope is to bring awareness to extended breastfeeding so if mothers decide to do it they are not ostracized by modern society!
Oh, and those NICU nurses had a reputation for doing that in a lot of hospitals! That makes me so mad. 24/7 nurse-in totally worked. They realized this girl that looked like she was a teenager meant business, and stopped being so pushy and condescending. I did meet one NICU nurse that was a big supporter, and that was when i was the most comfortable. Hopefully more start popping up in NICUs
Love it. My 2 oldest each nursed to around the 5 year mark, and I’m nursing my littlest now at about 22 months. But even with all that experiance, it’s really nice to be reminded that what we’re doing is so important and not ‘crazy’. Thanks for the inspiration.
Aimee my sister has five children (one is a step-daughter) and she has 12 years of breastfeeding under her belt and counting (her newest edition is three months old!)
We are not crazy. People who find us crazy or disgusting are completely ignorant and it is so sad. I always thought advocates were too extreme, but than I realized it is the only way people take notice and realize the importance of what they are saying.
You know what is weird? Our culture. Women didn’t have the right to vote until 1920. And segregation didn’t end completely until 1968! Thank God so many people spoke up about those issues.
Hello, first time visitor. I really like Katherine’s work – having just discovered her recently. Glad to see that it is being reprinted! Will come back from more